Planning for the future is important. Sure, nobody wants to feel overwhelmed thinking about the future from the start. For a while, if future is off the table, that’s ok. However, if he resists talking about the future like it doesn’t exist, it’s a red flag. Eventually, you’ll want to plan together. Maybe you want to study or want a job in another country.
If a relationship is important to you, you should factor in your partner. If he doesn’t do that anymore, maybe he’s not that interested in the relationship as he used to be.
